Fiance has been severly neglecting me for a long time. We had arguement, dont know what to make of it?

We got engaged a year ago. He's been neglecting me since. (Why no wed plans yet). It's to the point that it hurts too much to be in this relationship. Today, I asked him what he wants to do today n he sounded irritated. I am sick of trying to make plans with him that I gave up n quickly said well I'll just let U do your own thing and said bye have a nice day. He sounded happy n said he would do yard work. He never did yard work n just hung out w/friends. He came home 7:30pm. At this point, I couldn't take it anymore and we argued bc if he doesn't want to be with me, then I was trying to get him to just tell me. He said he is treating me the way I treat him (I don't neglect him)? (What?) and when I said it seems he doesn't want to be w me he said I guess so. (OUCH!) N he wants no part of married! Now I am wondering if I am being too needyBC I asked to make plans w/him. I just want to feel 1st N I dont. His friends R 1st. Does it sound like I got my answer?